Tip For Men Striving to Become More Disciplined
- Ray De La Nuez
- Oct 18, 2021
- 2 min read

Here's the #1 tip for guys striving to become more confident & disciplined šā£
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I'll get straight to the point since I know you clicked on this post because this matters to you.ā£
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First, DISCLAIMER: ā£
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**Results will vary in direct proportion to the level of YOUR desire to stop feeling like you're an inadequate and unreliable man.**
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Okay, now that we got that out of the way, I want to tell you this simple principle that I've applied in my own life over the last decade, & that military Generals have attested to intentionally applying in their lives.ā£
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You ready?ā£
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You Must Do This
In order to become a more confident and disciplined person, & to be known by others as someone who is self-reliant and dependable you MUST surround yourself with the people who CHALLENGE you to be better.ā£
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Sounds simple enough, right?ā£
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Then why aren't all men doing it?
And you might say, "well, I am!"ā£
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But bro, are you really? Are you really being purposeful about surrounding yourself with people BECAUSE they challenge you? ā£
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Or, are you stuck in the default mode of surrounding yourself with people just like you?ā£
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Because if you are going to tell me that you have been surrounding yourself with people who are truly challenging you, but you're still dealing with feelings of incompetence & inadequacy, then I am forced to question the intentionality of those relationships or the integrity of those people.
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I'm also forced to remind you of that old adage that says "you become like the people you surround yourself with.ā£"

WHAT NOW?
Right about now you should be asking yourself, "who in my phone book can I actually count on being there to sharpen me?" (You may not have used those exact words, but it's all the same)ā£
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Bro, for the sake of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health, I sincerely pray that you have at least ONE person that you can reach out to right now.ā£
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But in case you don't, I would hate to leave you so exposed without also offering an opportunity to connect with a genuine community of like-minded Christian men.
We meet virtually to help forge, sharpen and shape each other into the image of the men God intended them to be.ā£
You can learn more about it here. I'll meet you inside.
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